In this episode, Dara considers the elements that contribute to our resentment buckets and shoulder chips. He believes time and the ease of others are two key ingredients in the mix. He confesses to giving voice to some very uncharitable resentfulness around the time he became a father. He also speaks carefully around a significant source of resentment in his marriage.
Prickliness can accompany resentment, and Dara recalls someone he knew who disinvited everyone from his party because they hadn’t RSVP’d in time! He considers his attitude to parties and hosting and shares how it’s connected to the management system in his childhood homes and why his kitchen overflowed with goodies once he got out in the big bad world.
Also in this episode, an analysis of an 18th century painting of Penelope, she of Greek myth, and a review of the documentary Will & Harper, which Dara found to be a beautiful testament to friendship, and to male friendship in particular.